‘Escorting’ is one of the oldest professions known to exist, and can be traced back to the ancient Babylonian times, where it was common practice in “Houses Of Heaven” dedicated to various deities.
The business model of paying for sex or ‘companionship’ has changed very little from its humble beginning thousands of years ago — but in a new modern era, with the ability to connect to a large online audience at your fingertips — finding no-strings, un-emotionally attached sex has never been easier..
Adultwork is the market leader for connecting ‘escorts’ with customers and receives over 10 millions hits a month from hungry men, ready to blow their hard-earned cash on a few hours of emotionless intercourse.
Clearly the demand is there — so it is no surprise that there are now thousands of young women signing up to the site daily to cash in, despite the obvious risks involved.
The legality of ‘escorting’ is still somewhat of a grey area — Prostitution has been illegal in the UK since 1985, however, escorting has escaped falling under that category, as ‘sex’ is never openly offered by the escort. The money exchanged has been conveniently reworded to pay for the girls ‘time’ — but what happens when two consenting adults are together during that ‘time’ is between them ….
Whilst there are several reputable agencies online that make it very clear that sex is not on the menu — It’s hard not to see the contradiction when all of the girls profiles on Adultwork list their favourite sexual positions, and how much extra ‘Anal’ will cost — It’s far from discreet as to what is genuinely being sold….
Ultimately— What girls decide to do with their own bodies, out of choice, is something that I feel should not be legislated against, despite my concerns for the girls safety.
I spoke with an popular escort on the site (who wishes to remain anonymous) — to get her views on the industry, and hear a little more about her plans for the future…..
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
I don’t remember what I wanted to become when I was a child. I never cared what was the expectation of my parents or the society towards me. I was alaways a bit rebellious and I just knew what I didn’t want to be. My parents wanted me to go to university, but I hated studying — so I started my own business instead when I was 19.
What made you get into escorting?
I came back from a long holiday earlier this year and I was without job and place where to go. Literally unemployed and homeless. At this point one of my friends suggested that I could try out escorting and told me about AdultWork website. I think I always looked down on prostitutes and never liked the idea of having sex with unknown people for money, I thought it’s disgusting and I could never be able to do that. But I thought I don’t have much choice left, and after all I don’t have nothing to lose, so why not try it? If I don’t like it or cannot do it, I’ll quit and do something else. Now, after almost a year doing escorting I think this was the best decision in my life and the only thing I regret, why I haven’t started it earlier?
Are your family aware of what you do? are they ok with it?
I told to all of my friends and even my family knows about what I’m doing. They don’t judge me, they just worry about me, that’s all.
How has the job affected your own relationships?
It hasn’t affected any of my relationships. My friends still love me, regardless what I’m doing. And I don’t have very strong bond between my family.
Have you ever been in a relationship with a client? Or would you ever get jealous if a regular client went with another escort?
Well, yes, we see each other regularly with one of my clients. Actually he was my VERY first client. I wouldn’t call it a relationship or anything, because we don’t live together. We both have our lives and we both need our space, because of our work. He’s free to do whatever he wants to do, including seeing other escorts if he wants, that’s fine with me. How could I ask him to not do it, if my work involves having sex every single day with different men?? That wouldn’t be fair..
I think it’s pretty cool that we don’t judge each other and there’s no jealousy either.
If a client visits an other escort, I don’t give a shit about it. Why would I care? That’s why he comes to an escort because there’s no commitment needed from his side, no strings attached.
But since I’m escorting, there is a HUGE line between my work and private life. I’m talking about sex without condom. It’s STRICTLY applies to my private life, this is something I would NEVER EVER do in work, with any of my clients AT ALL!!! I need very strong emotions to be able to do this with another person.
Can you tell us about the first escort job?
I remember I was so anxious about my work. I really wanted to work in a brothel because I thought it will be more safe and secure with other people around me. I called several phone numbers and even went into one brothel and stayed there for a day to see how it works, but it was so dodgy that I left after a few hours and brought another girl with myself too, I literally rescued her! After this experience I just started to work from my apartment which I was renting and since then I’m working completely on my own and I’m 100% independent. The only exception if I do duo bookings with another girl.
Have you ever had any bad experiences in the job? stalkers? weird fetishes etc?
I would separate the two questions. I start with weird fetishes. Normally I do quite a lot of things, but I prefer PSE (porn star experience), rather than GFE (girlfriend experience). The reason is that I hate kissing with clients… I find it so stupid question when they ask me if I like kissing. I would love to answer them: “Of course I love kissing, but not with you, asshole!!” , but of course I can’t tell this to them…
Once I had a request for domination. I said ok. The guy came, fat British, wearing suit, came in lunch break. He took out from his bag chains which had nipple clumps on the ends of it. I had to clip the nipple clumps to his nipples and pinch them together and squeeze it as hard as I can. He was in pain but that’s what he loved. The same day removed “domination” from my enjoys list on my profile.
To answer the first part of the question: I had people who I had to throw out from my apartment because they were disrespectful and very rude. It wasn’t easy, especially that I live on my own. After that I was shaking and crying when they left and I was unable to work for days after the experience.
Only one criminal case I had: once I went for an outcall to a hotel for an overnight booking. I spent 5 hours with the bloke, he got very drunk, he was drinking all night long, so he couldn’t really perform. When I went to the bathroom to have shower, I heard the door banging. I thought he went down to the bar to drink more, but when I went back to the room, I noticed that he took all the money he gave me in an envelope which was in my bag. (He thought he couldn’t fuck me, so he doesn’t give me anything, even if he wasted 8 hours of my life..) I called the police straight away, and told them what’s happened. They helped to get my money back the same night. They were extremely helpful, it was a very good experience after all, even if it was very stressful experience all together.
Another experience I had: once I had a police in my place and it turned out that someone has reported me to the landlord I was renting from and they sent the police over. In the result of it I had to move out from my place..
How much money can you make?
I never made less than £1500 a week, but usually I make between 2 or 3,000 weekly. I never ever made this much money before in my whole life, I think this is my motivation first of all and that I’m my own boss. But I know many girls who are advertising on the same website and they don’t make this much, not even half of it. I think they don’t put enough energy and effort to make their profile stand out or maybe they don’t even have access to their own profile if for example a pimp or madam runs their profile. I work a lot on my profile, I’m uploading pictures and videos a lot. It’s
What is the best bit about being an escort?
The INDEPENDENCE!! I’m totally free to choose my working hours, and I don’t have to wake up in the morning, go to work. I work whenever I want to work and I can take a day out whenever I want a day off. I never lived so freely in my whole life.
Actually now I think that 99.9% of humanity lives in complete slavery and only very very very few percent of them have this freedom, yet more than enough money for living. I consider myself very very lucky that I can live this freely and independently.
What about the worst?
The worst thing when clients who are completely not attractive and on a completely different wavelength, try deep french kissing with me, or even worse: they want to lick me. This can give me so hard reactions, I feel like I want to run away. It’s more disgusting than having sex with them with condom on, I don’t know why.. Maybe I’m over sensitive to my energetic field, my aura, but I hate this so much.
Has being an escort changed your opinion of men?
I never had a very good opinion about men in general, but since I’m escorting, it just became worse. I’m not judging them because they see prostitutes, but they don’t see anything else in women other than their body.
Sometimes I’m reading articles in UK punting forum and I think that they are seriously mental. I’m talking about the reviews like this “I had a very good session with this and this escort, but I didn’t feel the connection between us. It seemed like she didn’t want kissing with me.” – holy fucking shit! Are they serious?? How can men expect girls to love kissing with a maybe 60 years old, smoker (=bad breath), disgusting man????
I can have an amazing session with a sexy, horny guy who treats me nice, and have a horrible session with another man who is smelling and pushy and very rude and it’s nothing to do with the age really, not even the looking I have to say. I had young, good looking clients who were just so rude or pushy (too aggressive in bed), that I would not want to see them again, while in the other hand I had old clients who were absolutely not attractive, but they were absolute gentlemen and treated me very nicely, that I would rather choose them. I also feel that men generally have more respect for me since I started escorting, than they did when I would have sex for free.
How long will you continue doing this? And what are your plans for the future?
I have no idea how long I’m going to do this job for, but my plan is to buy a new built apartment in London, which is one of the most expensive places in the world, but this would be a lifetime investment also. If I’m doing this well, it doesn’t take too many years to get it, then after that we’ll see. I don’t really like to talk about my future plans, I rather make them come true!